*** Contradiction ***

A friend of mine once said, “Even as friends, when it comes to money, it is best if we keep it as clear as possible” ; however, it does not seems so when you accidentally hurt another friend due to the same policy…. He/she will tend to see you in one perspective, which is S-E-L-F-I-S-H

I guess it really does hurt when you cannot please both parties; but, it hurts more to the person who is the doer of it all: if a person’s sensitivity level is acutely high, even a joke becomes an unbearable spear in his/her heart. That was what happened between my c******** and I. What that had not meant to be a sarcastic note to get my money back is translated as a hurtful demand for her to return my money… After that, I just wanted to shut myself up just in case such case occur again. Sometimes it is best to keep to yourself. You may never know you might stab him/her deep in the heart accidentally…  

In conclusion, I think we all have to be flexible in terms of policies. Be lenient yet firm… and most of all, be ethical